A part of your personality that is being too rough, and that is not being easy going. Not allowing life to go with the flow. The need for more gentle approaches towards people, and situations. Hardened emotions. Being difficult for others to live with. Are you hanging out with the wrong crowd? Are you being too hard on yourself? Are you needing a bit of tenderness from others? Are you sometimes nervous to be your true self? Is it time to set boundaries with someone?
See Soft, Boundaries, Blocked, Anger, Strength.